If you tell someone you love them not only are you saying that you care beyond belief for that human being, but you are also saying you will always give your fucking 100% effort in anyway. Not be possessive need i remind you possessiveness leads to obsession, and obsession leads to insanity. Love comes more then just from the heart, its unexplainable. Love also means that you won’t give up on someone or leave them because you “need” to better yourself.. In the long run of things that person you ‘love’ will realize that that was not an act of love at all actually it was an act of selfishness and then you never really loved them at all… loving yourself more then you love that person. I was told you loved yourself more, i understand. but i also understand you cant control who you fall in love with, so anyone out there with relationship “issues” always remember do you really want to be with that person forever? If not leave them, if so love unconditionally and never give up. arguing is the heartbeat to the relationship. I still love my ex even tho i was fucked over but thats life. Live and let live, love and let love and remember to go with the flow and not control.. thanks for letting me vent friends.
P.s. Someone beautiful once told me that love means you would give up anything for that person. Another told me “if we were meant to be we would reconnect”. Idk, but i hope this reaches out to some people.